refer to me

USAGE SUMMARY

"refer to me" is a correct and usable expression in written English.
You can use it to politely draw another person's attention to your opinion or advice. For example, you might say, "I suggest we try the new marketing plan. Refer to me if you have any questions."

✓ Grammatically correct

News & Media

Science

Formal & Business

Human-verified examples from authoritative sources

Exact Expressions

55 human-written examples

Women refer to me by name".

Independent

This is the only appropriate way to refer to me.

The Guardian

"They refer to me because they don't know how to handle the situation," he said.

The New York Times - Health

And there are some of my friends that refer to me as Chester Greenwood.

The New York Times - Magazine

Nonetheless, for years thereafter, he would occasionally refer to me as Huck Finn.

The New York Times

"Sometimes people refer to me, and people like me, as dinosaurs from the 80s.

The Guardian

"Don't refer to me as a drink," Mr. Hick once heard a Scot say.

The New York Times

"I'm a British citizen, yet here they refer to me as a Pakistani novelist," he said.

The New York Times

There's no article that I've seen that doesn't refer to me as a democratic socialist.

The Guardian

People often refer to me in a dress as my alter ego but I never use that term.

The Guardian - Lifestyle

But, and here's the big clincher, how do I kindly ask my guests not to refer to me with such familiarity?

The New York Times

Expert writing Tips

Best practice

When making a request about names or pronouns, follow "refer to me" with clarity. For example, "Please refer to me as Alex" or "I request that you refer to me using they/them pronouns."

Common error

Avoid using "refer to me" in highly informal situations where it might sound overly formal or pretentious. In casual conversations, simpler phrases like "call me" or just stating your preference directly are often more appropriate.

Linguistic Context

The phrase "refer to me" functions as an imperative request or instruction. It's used to guide others on the proper way to address or mention the speaker. As Ludwig examples show, this phrase is commonly used in situations involving names, pronouns, or titles.

Expression frequency: Very common

Frequent in

News & Media

50%

Formal & Business

25%

Science

25%

Less common in

Encyclopedias

0%

Wiki

0%

Reference

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Ludwig's WRAP-UP

The phrase "refer to me" is a common and grammatically sound way to instruct others on how you wish to be addressed or mentioned. According to Ludwig, it appears frequently in news and media, formal business settings, and scientific contexts, signaling a neutral to formal register. When using this phrase, be clear about the specific terms or pronouns you prefer. While versatile, "refer to me" can sound overly formal in casual settings; consider simpler alternatives in those situations.

More alternative expressions

Phrases that express similar concepts, ordered by semantic similarity:

address me as

This alternative specifies the manner in which someone should be addressed, emphasizing formality or a desired title.

identify me as

This alternative emphasizes how the speaker wants to be recognized or classified.

mention me

This alternative is more concise and direct, focusing solely on the act of mentioning without necessarily implying a specific mode of address.

name me

This is a very basic and direct way of saying how others identify you.

call me

This alternative implies a specific name or title is used when addressing the speaker.

term me

This implies using a specific term or label to describe the speaker.

speak of me as

This suggests a more general discussion or reference, rather than direct address.

style me as

This implies using a particular style or title when referring to the speaker.

designate me as

This implies a formal or official assignment of a title or description.

allude to me

This suggests an indirect or subtle reference, rather than a direct mention.

FAQs

How can I politely ask someone to use my preferred pronouns?

You can politely request this by saying, "I would appreciate it if you would "refer to me" using [preferred pronoun] pronouns." This is a direct yet courteous way to express your preference.

What's a formal way to correct someone who misgenders me?

In a formal setting, you might say, "I understand the mistake, but I would like to clarify that I prefer to be "referred to me" as [preferred pronoun]."

When is it appropriate to use "refer to me"?

It's appropriate in situations where you need to clearly communicate how you want to be addressed, especially in professional settings, when discussing preferred names, or when specifying pronouns. It's a more formal request than simply saying "call me."

What's the difference between "call me" and ""refer to me""?

"Call me" typically relates to a name or nickname you want someone to use. "Refer to me" is broader and can encompass names, pronouns, titles, or any specific descriptor you want someone to use when speaking about or to you.