"You both need a timeout," they're told.
You both need to start talking about your retirement plans.
Maybe you both need to cut each other some slack.
("You can't be parents," she tells Cate and Baze, "you both need parents").
You both need to come out the other side delighted with the outcome – otherwise there's no point".
Getting him to talk to you honestly about how he feels and what you both need to do to improve your relationship is a much better idea.
"By not being honest with each other," he told me, "you can create a wedge in the relationship at a time when you both need understanding and support".
If you are going to be there in a selling role, you both need to be clear about who will be leading at any point on the call.
All I know is, I get better with homeopathy". How can you both exclude these explanations - since you both need to - and move on from this impasse?
While you feel, not unreasonably, that you want something more with this boy, you both need the space to work out whether those feelings are real or simply inspired by your circumstances.
But while these types of messages make men out to be insensitive jerks, they also show the women who uploaded them to be obsessed and deluded, doing everything they can to avoid facing the truth: maybe he's not into you, or maybe you both need to grow up and talk to each other.
