Note, though, that the story doesn't quite end with reconciliation.
So the De Kock matter has nothing to do so with reconciliation or forgiveness.
"And the government's urgency for peacekeepers shows you just how badly they've done with reconciliation".
So the story ends, movingly, with some kind of truth, and with reconciliation.
"Venezuela's government should start by dealing with reconciliation between Venezuelans," lawmaker William Ojeda said.
Bosnia after Dayton offered laboratory conditions in which to experiment with reconciliation.
But they also argued that forgiveness had to come hand in hand with reconciliation.
"It is no secret that there were some who disagreed with reconciliation with Hamas," said one.
Japanese leaders find the idea of reconciliation hard to accept, let alone understand, confusing apology with reconciliation.
In at least some of the cases I've been involved with, reconciliation and restorative justice is possible.
Ruhakana Rugunda, Uganda's internal affairs minister, said the key to ending the conflict was balancing accountability with reconciliation.
