The relevance of this is all down to the point that this measuring occurs all the time and it is when we measure in this way and start abstracting, we become frustrated, annoyed, unhappy and all the other undesirable feelings.
As there are many positive aspects to having a bikini body, it can equally come with a lot of costs: undesirable thoughts, feelings and behaviors, especially if the positive attributes become extreme.
She becomes isolated feeling undesirable and ugly.
It's been a year since they've slept together, she laments, feeling horribly undesirable — and all when she thought blow jobs were her unimpeachable "specialty".
Alternatively, consider a kind of tolerance we think undesirable: say, that of feeling no compulsion to take action against Nazi genocide.
The results of a recently-released survey http://file:///Users/barbaragreenberg/Documents/R-BarefacedBeautifulRelease-FINAL.htm found that approximately 20% of girls between 8 and 18 who wear makeup describe feeling unappealing, undesirable and simply not confident when they are not wearing makeup.
Lately, however, I've been feeling very undesirable and wondering things like, "How come ladies and gay guys get to have all the fun and sexy undies?" Then I realized, hey, there was nothing stopping me from slipping into the leg holes of some lacy unmentionables or leather briefs with a removable codpiece.
"Psychological projection" -- a psychological defense mechanism whereby one "projects" one's own undesirable thoughts, motivations, desires, feelings, and so on onto someone else.
It feels undesirable and unwanted.
At 55 the French writer complained of feeling marginalised and undesirable, while her frail paramour Jean-Paul Sartre enjoyed the admiration of young, beautiful women.
