This is just what happened on an ordinary afternoon in the office of a kind and careful counsellor in Kampala, Uganda.
In Uganda, survivors are at risk of arrest by police, as they are likely to assume that they're gay – a crime in this country and in 38 of the 53 African nations.
Carswell, whose father, Wilson, was one of the first doctors to identify HIV/Aids in Uganda in the 1980s, also made it clear that he was not at ease with the declaration by Farage that he felt uncomfortable when he could not hear English being spoken on a commuter train.
Charcoal burning has led to serious environmental problems in this region of north-east Uganda, as the majority of vegetation has been destroyed.
Uganda is home to roughly half the world's 700 or so mountain gorillas, and this new group tour for older families should see you locking eyes with at least one.
The report acknowledged that both programmes have benefited many young people in Uganda, especially those from poorer backgrounds, but added that "this achievement has been grossly watered down by the often inadequate, inefficient and ineffective response to inherent challenges".
In Katine sub-county, in north-east Uganda, where the Guardian is monitoring development work being carried out by the African Medical and Research Foundation (Amref), schools are still waiting for the district authorities to provide more teachers.
Luggya hopes the film will "open doors" for all players in Uganda, saying: "I think Ugandans realise that it is a brain game that can enhance their potential in all other aspects of life".
All this makes him quite the exception in Iganga, but across Uganda this young man is by no means a solo pioneer and his store is by no means unique.
But as someone who has chosen to be "out" and is still living in Uganda, I am in a minority of fewer than 20 people.
He addressed congregation after congregation, fuelling a type of public outrage that was entirely new to Uganda.
