I thought my long hair was important for appearing pretty, for fulfilling some subconscious idea about what it means to be beautiful.
He will pick up on the difference and may get a subconscious idea that you like him.
Things expected and unexpected are inevitable because the subconscious mind, an idea that even predates Freud, has so many levels, as does sleeping, and depending on how it is approached can react in different ways.
Practice remembering ideas from your subconscious mind.
Listen to this recording when you are very relaxed and let these ideas enter your subconscious mind.
You need to clear all other memories and let your subconscious mind freely come up with new ideas, of your own.
It embodies the concepts of relativity, subjective truth and the subconscious -- ideas independently supported by the objective findings of science.
My cartoonist brain (which is like a shark, constantly prowling my subconscious for ideas) immediately tacked the word "crime" onto organized, and I had my "Aha!" moment.
Even if you haven't, your subconscious mind has been tossing and turning, coming up with new ideas and rejecting old ones.
Present your suggestions to the subject: Now you start the actual hypnosis by slowly and gradually inculcating into the subject's mind ideas that you wish to convey and want her subconscious mind to accept as truth.
