You don't have to do the whole formal "would you like to go on a date with me?" speech, but can casually just say "I'm gonna do this awesome thing, you should join me!" By suggesting something a little different you show the other person that you're more creative, life loving and interesting than most people.
The script doesn't go particularly deep, but the film does have one unexpectedly striking moment, when Tom Amandes as Lincoln, recites the Gettysburg Address, not in booming, this-is-a-great-speech style, but casually, as if chatting over dinner.
In his short yet compelling speech, Snowden began by casually pointing out that there is a NSA base in Auckland and "one further north in the country".
Times's description of Romney's speech: "The Republican presidential candidate casually insulted almost 150 million Americans during a fundraising event in Florida where he explained to donors why he was unable to attack President Obama more vociferously as a 'corrupt' and failed leader".
Hawkins said that she and others at the organization have started slipping "antiabortion" casually into their own speech in place of "pro-life" sometimes.
This paper describes an interactive system called "Talking Eye", which casually chats with humans via speech voice, and reports the results of a psychological experiment to evaluate social behaviors on interaction with the Talking Eye system.
The Supreme Court has ruled that burning the American flag is protected speech, but the fact that Trump is casually floating the idea of revoking citizenship is pretty big news, too.
Xi appeared relaxed and smiling, and he spoke casually as he read his speech, a major contrast to his predecessor, Hu, who often appeared stiff and formal in official gatherings and rarely looked up while reading his prepared text.
In any case, Karzai had one of his own, which he played almost casually at the conclusion of his speech.
If China had plans to weaponize space, Xi probably wouldn't casually announce it during a mundane speech.
