And it was always the same dream: in the dream I'd be asleep, I'd wake up, sit up in my bed, and he'd be sitting there on the edge of my bed, staring at me, with the bullet hole still in his chin, about the size of a nickel.
In June I was invited to sit on the board of advisers for the Matchmaking Institute in New York.
Houses still sit empty, and there are calls for the government and Rio Tinto to make the dwellings available for public housing.
Inside the truck, the guards shouted, "Sit down!" Cross your legs!" I didn't understand the last part but they crossed my legs anyway.
Always a crowded but friendly dive, owner Jack Prince bought the joint next door several years ago and knocked out a wall, so that now you can even sit down, enjoy the dusty PBR ads on the wall or, even better, listen to live music.
McDonald's seems to sit at an emptying table in the middle.
There's the opportunity to take a ferry to spy some of the largely inaccessible mountains that sit next to the take, or you can go for a paddle yourself.
He often used to sit in silence just looking at me or mum, smiling, content to be with his family, at home and being looked after.
Luxury tourist travel in a country with widespread problems with poverty and malnutrition can sit uncomfortably with some, but Griffin points out that this would be a difficult dilemma to address had he been a tourist in any developing country.
"I'm certainly in no position to sit here and give advice to England.
Tracks like Quitters Raga sit somewhere between early Caribou and good Timbaland.
