My point is that you never know when or how you may be best helped or asked for help and often we don't share our aspirations enough – business or personal – as we think the person can't help us.
We suggest that Jill and John may be best helped by supporting their exploration of their situation, rather than having an initial or sole focus on trying to get them to drink less.
The greatest challenge for us is finding the vocabulary to explain that the person who may have the best help for you isn't necessarily someone you know".
I'm sure there are others, but they may be small organisations whose best help to you may be to provide information on activities in the region, skills needed in the sector, and how to develop your career--rather than telling you about vacancies.
For those LTU who value employment but cannot find it, the best help may be psychological support.
You cannot hope to change or rescue such a person, as much as you may care for them; the best help you can give them is to (A) refuse to be their victim, and (B) direct them to professional help.
You cannot hope to change or rescue such a person, as much as you may care for him/her; the best help you can give him/her is to (A), refuse to be a victim, and (B), direct him/her to professional help.
I spend a lot of time trying to educate the world at large on how to handle loss and challenge and how to best help someone who may be going through a life-altering situation.
When we hear "There would be no attacks on Gaza if their would be no rockets on the Western Negev," we must remind our fellow Israelis that this may be true, but we can best help ourselves if we stop using our overwhelming power to make life miserable for Gazans.
Offer the best help you can, or point them to someone who may be able to help them even better.
