The key lesson is sharing the experiences, like a good book, and connecting people to become better, stronger and more successful.
Here, though, the unexamined lessons are shared equally between vanquished and victor.
He says such a body could look into all breaches that cost over, say, $50m and make sure the lessons are shared widely.But insurers are likely to remain wary of taking on broader risks because the costs associated with a serious cyber-incident could be astronomic.
"We are committed to developing a strategic, UK-wide approach to the administrative justice system, to ensure the right decisions are made the first time; that where disputes arise, proportionate, timely and cost-effective solutions are provided; and lessons are shared and applied".
This paper gives some examples from different industries where lessons were not learnt and a notable one where the lessons were shared to the benefit of the public.
She added: "In the meantime there are a number of different investigations under way and Oil & Gas UK will continue to work with the industry, the regulators and relevant bodies to ensure that the lessons are shared and the recommendations appropriately addressed".
Their life lessons were shared indirectly through the recollections of my father, the eldest of 11, and annotated photos.
