Even so, nothing quite matches the sting and energy of a smart, sexy snipe-fest, which is why so many comedies are about long-married couples: Having kindled desire, irritated banter goes full circle and replaces it.
"For all of us, a tragedy of this nature can kindle the desire to reunite with a distant sibling or friend with whom you've had a dispute," Knight wrote in The Oregonian, Portland's daily newspaper.
The more you add to the "why" collection, the easier it will be to kindle your desire on days when motivation might be running low.
How are you going to convey that when describing what kindled your desire to change career?
Marco Polo's experiences also kindled the desire for travel and exploration in others and were, perhaps, a harbinger of the great age of discovery and exploration.
Like Pat Summitt of Tennessee, who holds the N.C.A.A. record with 1,061 career victories, Andrews grew up on a farm, inspired by a father who encouraged her career until the kindling of desire became a flame.
Within budget, allowing your child the choice can help him or her to feel a sense of belonging and kindles the desire to continue learning.
It was these performances that ultimately kindled Kaufmann's desire to become an opera singer.
