"It's how you present yourself," he said.
"Part of our profession is how you present yourself, not just your talent or your music.
Fleabag is similarly interested in the gap between how you present yourself to the world and the more bleak reality.
"How you present yourself is important," said Ms. Haines-Stiles, 29, who was especially embarrassed by a tear in her sofa that exposed the stuffing.
She expected a meritocracy, where hard work and intelligence rule the day, and found that whom you know and how you present yourself can best the best.
Now, that's not a license to go all matchy-matchy, couples, but rather an acknowledgment of the obvious: love changes how you present yourself.
Once you've accomplished the Herculean task of getting your foot through the door for an interview, you've got to showcase yourself, and an important part of any job pitch is how you present yourself.
If you want to stand out from the crowd, consider a video CV as it shows how you present yourself and that you can use technology creatively and effectively.
Dr Ed Morrison, of the Department of Psychology at the University of Portsmouth, wanted to study whether attractiveness was more to do with how you look or how you present yourself.
"Facebook used to be about connecting with your friends, but now it's so focused on the individual, with curating your timeline and how you present yourself to the world," she said.
"It's about becoming so comfortable and feeling you have so much control over how you present yourself that you become more your authentic self," said Dr. Cuddy of Harvard.
