I was just thinking about how it's confusing when Simon tells the contestants "You're through".
Eventually, I talked to them each more directly than I had expected to about the relative who had moved in with us and what he had done to me – how it had confused me for years.
"He loves football but he sometimes can't understand how it works and it confuses and upsets him, and when he is upset, he does things that aren't brilliant for the football club.
The rhythm of it is unique, and when you watch it, even if you know how it was done, it confuses your perceptions.
How it works might confuse some people".
Then I say something like, "If the Bible is so clear, why do so many Christians disagree on how we should interpret it?" Confused look, often followed by, "I don't know.
I have been offered a place by a uni in clearing but I am finding it confusing on how to accept the offer, can you help?
It's about how utterly confusing it is to be human.
Would-be parents often imagine the suffering erroneously; they confuse how it feels to lose an ability (to be suddenly bereft of hearing) with how it feels to live healthily with a variant body (to be deaf all your life).
It easy to see how it can quickly get confusing.
