So there are lots of different ways of getting them off the script: toughing them up is one way of doing it, but likewise sometimes coaxing them on and getting them relaxed can be a good way of doing it.
What we probably need to do is get them to relax a little bit".
US officials say they do not know if the reports are designed to get them to relax their hunt for him.
To get them to relax, he tried to make a game out of the preparations.
"I was trying to get them to relax a little, so maybe, in an unguarded moment, I got a little too relaxed myself".
He told me that I knew how to find the center of a story, how to talk to people, how to get them to relax and just trust me.
Some cattle folk find that reading a book to a herd of cows will not only get them to relax, but to get them used to the sound of their new owner's voice, if the animals are stressed and panicked about the presence of a complete stranger.
"I don't know what the solution is, but a lot of the time getting people to recover from an eating disorder means getting them to relax their ideas about clean eating".
"They'll be doing things to relax them and get them smiling.
