The heavy work belonged to his wife, a quiet lady who seemed to carry her grief past sadness, to an anticipation of future sorrow.
The Cubans are a great people -- in this instance they are both "bull" and "matador" -- and reconciliation, not continued disappointment, should be a mutual goal for the future, whatever sadnesses may ensue.
It didn't help, except in terms of dramatic richness, that she had an illegitimate child back in Cardiff to taint every turn of her future success with sadness, guilt and fear of exposure.
"Israelis may feel celebratory and great pride in how much has been achieved in the last 60 years," he said, "but they are also looking to the future with a sadness and a level of worry that is hard to share with Americans".
The BDI-Y includes items related to an adolescent's negative thoughts about self, life, and the future, feelings of sadness and guilt, and sleep disturbance.
The items measured whether adolescents had been bothered with feelings of i) fear or anxiety, ii) tension, distress or restlessness, iii) hopelessness about the future, iv) dejection or sadness, and/or v) excessive worry during the past 14 days.
By becoming more vulnerable to our feelings of sadness about future losses, we can meet the challenge and embrace life more fully.
As we mourn our losses and rebuild from the devastation of Sandy, it's tempting to look to this future with fear and sadness.
Finally, parents may avoid talking with their children about negative emotions related to the disease, such as anxiety for the course of the disease, uncertainty about future (education or work) and sadness about victimization by peers.
