You don't exist to please other people.
"They existed to please men, to maintain domestic order, to have children, to prolong the species".
But Hefner represents not the sexual revolution for women, but the continued belief that women exist to please men.
Nice girls put themselves last, do what's asked of them without complaint and exist to please others -- teachers, parents, boyfriends, coaches.
Our society does a good enough job of actively sexualizing women and breeding us to believe that there is no deeper self to invest in beyond our bodies, which only exist to please and/or attract men, without us giving in and helping them.
You do not exist to please them.
But freed from the burden of heavy expectations and pretensions -- and price, for that matter -- it exists simply to please.
Challenging the notion that women exist only to please men, she proposed that women and men be given equal opportunities in education, work, and politics.
In the meantime, I imagine writers will continue robustly to exploit the enormous American freedom that exists to write what they please, to speak out about the political situation, or to organize as they see fit".
Likewise, Lethal Weapon's new Murtaugh and Riggs exist purely to please an audience, bouncing off their captain, played by Kevin Rahm (Mad Men's Ted Chaough).
