3. Do exhibit self-control.
What happens to those children who exhibit self-control but who are disappointed?
Periods of reflection are built into the day for students and teachers alike, because reflection helps executive function — the ability to process information in an orderly way, focus on tasks and exhibit self-control.
But if you say, 'Well, actually you need to exhibit self-control,' or you explain the value of social intelligence — this will help you collaborate more effectively — then it seems a bit more tangible".
Variations on games like Freeze Tag and Simon Says require relatively high levels of executive function, testing a child's ability to pay attention, remember rules and exhibit self-control — qualities that also predict academic success.
But research subjects in my studies have shown that they can make plans, exhibit self-control and cooperate closely with others even under heavy influence of marijuana — never mind when only slightly affected, as Mr. Martin could, at most, have been.
Margetts ([2005]) adds that when children are given consistent guidance and support in being responsible for controlling their feelings and behaving in acceptable and considerate ways without disturbing or hurting others, they are more likely to exhibit self-control.
Usually, such nurturance starts at home when parents give their budding school children consistent guidance and support in being responsible for controlling their feelings and behaving in acceptable and considerate ways without disturbing or hurting others, so that they are more likely to exhibit self-control (Hill and Craft [2003]; Margetts [2003]).
Why it's better: Studies show that children who exhibit self-control and the ability to delay gratification enjoy greater future success.
Model responsible adult values, exhibit self-control, choose your words carefully and consider the impact they may have on a particular student or group of students.
