I imagine that Singer understood and empathized with the perspectives of both.
When challenges or choices arise, truly listen to their viewpoint and empathize with their perspective.
About ten years later, I'd empathize with the perspective of the hypothetical criminals as I'd try to sneak out of the house through a particularly noisy sliding glass door and imagine how much easier it'd be with one of those circular glass cutter/suction cup combos made famous by cartoon cat burglars.
"If you're playing baseball," he elaborated, "you can't just say, 'I'm really happy at second base.' " A boy who was the leader of the Young Conservatives Club asked, "But what if it's just more pleasure getting to home base?" Although this student is a fan of Vernacchio's, he likes to challenge him about his tendency to empathize with the female perspective.
You too should empathize with your husband's perspective.
BIRDMAN made me empathize with life from his perspective.
"It may be that compensating for partner disengagement by distancing from what is happening helps," they write, "to maintain a sense of equilibrium and/or to empathize with the partner's perspective".
Improve your social skills to interact with people more effectively, and practice empathizing with their concerns and perspectives.
Share and clarify your differing perspectives, and try to empathize with each other's point of view.
You seem like such an empathetic person with your ability to see the good side of rapists; maybe if you try to look at this situation from that woman's perspective, you would be able to empathize with the person you should be empathizing with.
