Casually look around, occasionally, for anyone who might be listening while keeping a soft tone.
Yes, it can be a tough business, but looking around at the chattering throng of youngish, casually affluent people here, success seems easy.
Start looking around immediately.
I know this because I rode a bike around the city that day casually looking for Tulane fans.
Imagine sitting in a meeting or on a date, waving your arm around for a bit, then casually looking at your watch to see whether you've got any emails.
When your cat looks at you, make a point of casually looking away.
When she finally grabs the wallet, she casually places it in her pocket, looks around, and ambles down the aisle and out of the video camera's shot.
Senator Jon S. Corzine was standing in the unfinished rotunda of the Secaucus transfer station last fall waiting for a campaign event when he looked around and said casually, "You know, we're not going to be able to get full use from this place until we have a second tunnel".
However, if you look around, smile softly at anyone who glances your way, and casually flip through a magazine seeming only moderately engaged in what you are reading, people will likely see you as open.
At a girls' night out in Los Angeles at age 27, I looked around at the gorgeous aspiring actresses holding their glasses of wine casually, perfectly in one hand and thought, I would totally give this up to have a baby.
