The missing ingredient seems to be regret at canceling on you, a valuable lesson.
"That determines who you can cancel on and who can cancel on you, who you can have attitude with and who can give you attitude".
This way you won't get a driver angrily cancelling on you for making them drive a long trip.
Assuming, of course, they haven't canceled on you.
If they answer their phone, carry a coffee or shake, sit down while they are training you, talk with other clients or, lastly but most importantly, they are late or cancel on you, find another trainer.
#hearingprivilege is not when your Uber ride cancels out on you because the driver keeps on calling you, not answering your texts.
These are the friends whose successes you celebrate rather than envy, whom you don't cancel on when you're due to meet, to whom you never lie, for whom you would drive across the country, and whose partners and children you tolerate (you might even consider them friends too).
So, if you are cancelled on suddenly, or they aren't responding to your messages, don't be upset.
If you're a gearhead, I don't want to cancel Christmas on you here.
