The phrase "attentive lover" is correct and usable in written English.
It can be used to describe someone who is considerate, caring, and responsive in a romantic relationship.
Example: "She appreciated having an attentive lover who always remembered the little things that made her happy."
Alternatives: "thoughtful partner" or "caring significant other".
My boyfriend is always trying to be an attentive lover, or whatever, and always asks me what I like sexually.
Once you become your most attentive lover, you can attract a true love from want and not need.
On his latest album, this year's chart-topping "Views," he contrasts some remarkably callous ideas about women against luscious production that makes him sound like the most attentive lover on Earth.
"[Old surveys suggest] that men thought they were more attentive lovers after using the plant, and most folks thought that it enhanced orgasm and increased general arousal and responsiveness".
"Anytime you have an attentive crowd of music lover, you can't go wrong".
In his songs, loners cast an impassive but attentive eye on friends, lovers and their own failings; his tunes sound friendly, but he spares no one.
Like one of the heroes of his book, Edward Thomas, he is, I've noticed, borderline obsessed with weather – as attentive to it as a lover.
It was extraordinarily supple free-bop, speeding up and down with a lover's intuition, as attentive to dynamics as to pulse.
Lyrically, it involves the singer asking why her lover was not as attentive as he once was.
His crucial invention, Buzz Drumer, a homosexual passionate enough to sacrifice his fortune for a bygone conquest, is oddly unpersuasive as gay; he is so politely and persistently attentive to Pearl that he is mistaken for her lover.
Moreover, the very concept of listening as an attentive (and sometimes rigorous), serious, and necessary activity of the music lover gained acceptance only slowly, following the inauguration of public concerts, and is still vigorously resisted.
