The phrase "actually ask you" is correct and usable in written English.
It can be used when emphasizing the act of asking someone something directly, often to clarify or confirm a point.
Example: "I didn't mean to assume; I actually ask you if you wanted to join us for dinner."
Alternatives: "truly inquire" or "genuinely ask".
Then, when they actually ask you, you may be able to say it.
"Did she actually ask you to do that?" my inner voice asks, angrily.
Let me actually ask you a quick question on universal child care.
In terms of content, that means taking the time to create a list of sample questions in advance that you think the host might ask you (some hosts will actually ask you for that list as a means of both ensuring they hit the right points and outsourcing their preparation).
Millennials for example, spend less than two years on average at a job, and if you spend six years or more at the same company, recruiters will actually ask you: "why?" So how can you build a company for the long-term in an environment where employees are not personally invested in the growth of your company?
If you say "big data" in a meeting, someone may actually ask you about the data set - be prepared to answer.
The question I actually asked you was: would you reveal the information about your costs.
While you should answer the person who actually asked you the question, you should try and make them all feel included, she says.
So we're actually asking you to do something this time around rather than just leaving something in the comments.
NextGoals: NextGoals is an app that actually asks you to work out and then verifies that you went to the gym.
Finally, a warning on solicitations of feedback from your boss: This may seem counterintuitive if she actually asks you for feedback, that means she wants to hear out all your thoughts, right?
