Some caregivers even live great distances from the person to whom they are providing care.
Some caregivers feel they are better mothers to the babies and are hurt when the child turns to the parent when the parent returns home.
Some caregivers regard such tests — which can lead to abortions after unfavorable results — as an affront to the equal humanity of their loved ones.
Some caregivers cited previous experience with raising older children that reinforced the practice of safe sleep.
Some caregivers knew someone whose child died from unsafe sleep, and learned from that situation to keep their child safe.
Some caregivers also reported that their children approached them with less fear, leading to more enjoyable interactions.
Some caregivers said that they replaced these negative behaviors with positive strategies to manage their children's behavior.
Some caregivers are never "okay with it".
Some caregivers never come to terms with it.
Some caregivers avoid the heartbreak by never bonding in the first place.
Some caregivers experience what is called 'anticipatory grief.' That is, they begin grieving over the person's death even before the individual dies.
